7 Biblical Truths That Can Transform Relationships
The truth is, it’s not the big betrayals or dramatic blow-ups that slowly erode connection; it’s the small, repeated choices in how we handle conflict, disappointment, unmet expectations, and forgiveness.
In the message, “7 Biblical Truths About Relationships,” Apostle Mike Signorelli teaches that relationships aren’t fixed by chance; our choices shape them. Whether in marriage, ministry, business, or family, the health of your relationships depends on how you align your mind with Christ, how you handle the pressure points, and whether you choose unity over division, encouragement over criticism, and forgiveness over bitterness.
These are not soft suggestions; they are battle-tested biblical truths, practical and spiritual weapons, that can turn even the most strained relationships into places of healing, strength, and kingdom impact.
1. Conflict as a Catalyst for Intimacy or Division
“All conflict can produce intimacy or division—you choose,” Apostle Mike shared with his congregation. The minister reminds believers that every disagreement is a fork in the road. Even something as small as how someone chews their food can drive you apart or bring you closer, depending on your response. True unity comes when both people adopt “the mind of Christ” and submit their thoughts to His wisdom. 1 Corinthians 1:10 compels followers of Christ to agree with one another, so that there be “no divisions among you.”
2. Forgiveness: Unconditional and Liberating
God doesn’t wait for us to apologize before He forgives us, so why should we? Forgiveness is an act of obedience and freedom, not a reward for someone else’s remorse. Holding onto bitterness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Release them, not because they deserve it, but because Christ forgave you first. Ephesians 4:32 encourages us to be like Cgrist and be kind, compassionate, and forgiving towards one another.
3. Prophecy as Encouragement and Building Up (1 Corinthians 14)
True prophecy is not pointing out the obvious; it’s revealing hidden potential. Just as Apostle Mike’s wife once spoke life over him, prophesying “man of God” over him in the midst of his mess, we’re called to speak life, hope, and destiny into others. Criticism is easy; encouragement requires faith. In John 16:33 Jesus advises His followers to “Take heart, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
4. Assumptions: Termites or Worker Ants
Assumptions can either eat away at trust like termites or store up good, like worker ants (Proverbs 6:6–11). Healthy relationships are built by choosing to serve, store, and invest in others over the long haul, not by taking and consuming.
5. Forgiveness Is Commanded, Reconciliation Is Conditional
We must forgive everyone, but reconciliation is not always wise or possible. Scripture lays out clear steps for addressing offense, and sometimes the final step is peace through healthy separation. Matthew 18:15–17 outlines a process for addressing sin within a community of believers, emphasizing reconciliation and restoration.
6. Reflect What You Expect
Your expectations set the atmosphere of your relationships. Hope produces joy; fear produces decay. Expect God to move in others and watch how your faith shapes your shared reality. Proverbs 10:28 states: "The hope of the righteous shall be gladness: but the expectation of the wicked shall perish
7. Authority Over Control
Control is fear-based; authority is faith-based. You are not a victim of the people around you, you have God-given authority to influence your environment, speak life, and see His will done. This authority comes from true faith that Christ is who He says He is. 1 John 5:14 states, "And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to His will He hears us."
Relationships are not passive, every moment is a choice—unity or division, faith or fear, control or authority. Apostle Mike’s words encouraged Christians to choose. What will you choose today? Don’t just react, lead with the mind of Christ, and watch God rewrite the story of your relationships.
About the Author
Jeannie Ortega Law is a chart-topping singer, evangelist, media personality and author from New York City. She can be reached on social media: @JeannieOrtega or emailed at Info@JeannieO.com
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